Heartbroken? Hurt? Many times we are quick to cancel or discard or cut dead — people who disappoint us. It can also be, as a result of hurtful words: offensive words … one act forgotten; or one event missed. We quickly carry off to cut off people, and perhaps they could have been in a … Continue reading Remember the Good Too!
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Heartbreak Hotel
I once fell in love, when I was younger. I had fallen head over heels for this girl. But unlike the ‘usual falling’, God had told me she was the one CLEARLY; and that was when I began intentionally pursuing. The brother zone was my zone prior, but I strived to get out. She’d shared … Continue reading Heartbreak Hotel
Criteria for Choosing a Spouse
1 Samuel 16:7-10 But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For [the LORD does] not [see] as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." So Jesse called Abinadab, and made him … Continue reading Criteria for Choosing a Spouse
Before you say ‘I do’…
In 2019, I was having a conversation, amidst a group of friends. Some were married, others had given up on marriage, and others, well, were about to get married. As the conversation microwaved on, everyone began sharing their expectations of marriage. One of them said he wanted ONE child; ‘and it has to be a … Continue reading Before you say ‘I do’…


